PLEASE PLEASE!! help me not to be sooo shy about my....

I'd say that if your man likes to be with you, likes to look at you, and likes to take pictures of you, you don't really have a problem except that you think that the plastic girls in the more mainstream porn or Playboy are what a woman should look like. If you really need to compare yourself you may want to look at some of the specialty porn. try www.large-labia-productions.com or just google "large labia", "big fat pussy lips" or something similar.

In the end though, only two peoples' opinions of your pussy really count. Yours and his, Have you tried asking him about your pussy? My guess is that he loves you and everything about you,  including your pussy.

Please think long and hard about going under the knife. If you go that route, you will, at the very least end up with smaller pussy lips, which is a crying shame all by itself, but they will also be unnatural looking and probably less sensitive too. But you could also end up being one of the women who ends up with a botched surgery, or who is even less happy with their pussy than they were to begin with.  

I'm going to answer your last question with a question. Have you bothered to read any on the other posts here? I think the answer is pretty obvious

Shy,

I am a 30 year old male with a wife who is 25 years old, and is a happy owner of "large" labia.

Large labia, are just like small labia -- they aren't any different from a man's perspective.

Don't let social stigma's and retarded doctors convince you to get surgery you ultimately don't need.

If you're husband likes what you have, which I think is evident by the fact that he married you, and that you have a child together, then I wouldn't be too concerned about it at all.

Your pussy is not like your breasts. . .in other words, the rest of the world doesn't see your pussy like they see your breasts.

Breast surgery is almost always the result of what OTHER people think when they see a woman's breasts.

Labiaplasty on the other hand. . .well. . .besides the "why" you would do it (to make yourself look "normal" -- whatever that means). . .the real question is "who" would you do it for??  Realistically, no one except you and your husband see your labia anyway.

Just my 2 cents. . .

Instead of being ashamed of your lips, instead of looking for Doctors to remove them, you should be reveling in them, and understanding their beauty and sexuality.  Your husband is a very lucky man to have you.  You have no reason to be embarrassed.  Quite the opposiet, you should be proud of your endowment.  Your lips are extremely sexually attractive just because they are larger, longer, thicker.  You are a fortunate woman to be blessed with them.  Show them to your hubby all the time.  Ask him to take photos of your beauty.  Ask him to give you more and more oral pleasure.  Dont' hide from him, or from the world.  Feel the sexiness of your body.  Use it.  Take joy and pleasure in it.  All you have to do is to read some of these letters to know how valuable your lips are.  Forget normal size.  You are special.  Valuable.  Like many of the other women who write here, not understanding the value of the gifts that God bestowed on them.

To "Shy":
I removed the email address you posted with your letter. Apparently it doesn't belong to you...  I received an email from that address and the person denies having written this letter.

If this was an honest mistake—which I doubt—please supply me with the correct email address and I will post it. If I don't receive it by September 26th I assume you are a fake.

Labi,

Maybe she's not fake. . .but I think some people may even use fake e-mail addresses just to keep their anonymity.

Perhaps we should soon implement an e-mail verification system.

I'm at your service if you need me to help with it.

I am after all a web programmer!

But surely if you want to remain anonimous/don't want anyone contacting you, you just leave out an email address seeming as you don't have to include one if you don't want to.