24yrs old-feel like i have to hide

Who is it that tell you that no one wants you because of your labia?? And who is it that tell you to get labiaplasty?? If you are really going to listen to other people like that, why not listen to the endless line of men and women who dedicate their love for larger lips on this web site and other web sites?! Only few people really think that large labia isn't sexy, maybe you have been unlucky to meet to many of those or maybe their cruel statements are dificult to get out of your head. I know it all to well since I used to be really ashamend of mine aswell but this web site among other things made me realize that large labia is really a very sexy thing according to most people. I also see it this way: having large labia really enhance the chances of ending up with real men (and women) who appriciate women the way they look.  
By the way are you sure that your hubby doesn't say anything just to avoid hurting your feelings? Couldn't it be because he likes you the way you are?  
By the way you don't need to change anything about yourself to get an active sex life. Since I started having sex I have always had an active sex life and I also have large labia. All in all I have had good experience with my sex partners except one really bad experience that also ended up making me very self concious for a very long time.  
You say that you like to play with them. That is really good, then you also must know deep down that they are a blessing and not a curse.
I really hope for the best for you: that you will realize how lucky you really are and tell people who try to convince you otherwise to go to hell.
Take care, Ann

On this site - my dear - all the guy's would like to play with them
..........take your choice... or your pick.

Mr "S"

If a guy is freaking out about it you shouldn't let him near you. I was going out with my ex for 4 years and her lips were to die for. Long meaty dark but pinkish on the inside. Like you, she liked to play with them a lot and had a mad high sex drive. Its all about self confidence. If you are confident the guy won't care. If he does then he has a lot of growing up to do and you don't need him in your life. One day your twin will regret it. And whoever is telling you that you need to fix them is a waste of space. My exs hung down quite a bit i'd say 1.5cm and she was so comfortable with them! And they gave her & myself a lot of pleasure!

Debbie,

Wow that's rough. . .so your twin sister succumbed to the social stigma and social pressure enough to go get her lips "fixed"??

Well, I don't think YOU should do that at all, because there's nothing to fix, as I'm sure you probably ascertained on your own, but because of social pressure feel like what you feel internally isn't true.

I have to say, I haven't met a guy who'd be "put off" because you have a high sex drive -- in fact I would think it's the opposite.

You also say there are guys you want to be with, so I'm assuming you and your hubby have other folks in your bedroom for enjoyment from time to time.  My wife and I do the same thing, and thoroughly enjoy it -- in fact we think it keeps things "spicy" for us as well!

I wouldn't be embarrassed about your lips, and if your husband can't appreciate them. . .well then. . .maybe you should get a new husband, or maybe find someone who does appreciate them when your husband doesn't it (even though the prior is probably best, since the latter would be deceptive).

If you like to play with them, then keep doing that -- and if you EVER should come across a guy that "freaks out" because your pussy lips are large, let me know.

I apologize if my thoughts are a bit candid, but it's how I tend to be, as anyone on this site who knows me will tell you.

Like I tell every woman on this site. . .it is literally IMPOSSIBLE for me (or any man really) to get enough pussy, so if you should find that your husband doesn't want to lick/dick your pussy anymore, or becomes "bored", just let me know, and I will gladly pick up where he leaves off -- in fact so would my wife (she's recently discovered a bi-sexual side of herself). =0)

- Eric

Why don't you read the thousands of letters on this site. The topic has been covered so extensively it is surprising that everyday some one else comes again with the same topic.

If you want, talk to me

EMM

Debbie,

I just want to know who told you that no one would want you, and was it because of your labia, or your sex drive?

I can believe it if they told you that it was due to your labia, only because I've seen letter after letter about this, although I cannot for the life of me figure out why anyone would believe such a thing.  

If it was your "hubby", god I hope he's just a boyfriend because he either believes this, in which case I believe that he was probably dropped on his head as an infant. Or he wants you to believe it so you'll stay with him. either way, he's either an idiot, or a control freak. neither one of those is worthy or the delights that a set of long, sexy labia can bring.

If you were told that no one would want you because of your sex drive...well, I think we can all agree that that is a completely unbelievable claim, and the person who told you that can be laughed out of town.

If you put the two of those conditions together, you've got yourself a winning combination.  The only thing in my mind that is sexier that big sexy pussy lips, is big sexy pussy lips on a woman who wants to throw them at me.  

Of course, not ALL men feel this way, but it is my firm belief that about 9 out of every 10 men prefer large labia. And I'll just guess that the 10th man actually prefers the other 9.

If you're still not convinced, I'm sure that you'll have several offers for a free evaluation of the labia in question. It's a service that we who frequent this site like to extend to women such as yourself, who've had self image issues origination from the size of your labia. And a service which will be handled enthusiastically by what is perhaps the most knowlegeable panel of Vaginal beauty experts you're likely to find gathered in one location.

Go have your fun, keep your labia the way they are, the only thing sadder than a woman who wants to have labioplasty, are the letters I've seen on this site from women who've done it, and regretted it.

XOXO t_d

Debbie, Ann gives you excellent advice here.  Pay attention to it.  Could it be that some of the bad advice and guidance you have been receiving comes from your sister?  Isn't she the one who has had labiaplasty?  Don't you think that perhaps she is trying to convince you to follow her decisions?  I can only tell you that it would be a huge, lifelong mistake.  You say that you have guys that you want to be with.  Go for it.  Play with yourself even more than you do now.  Learn to love your body, and to make the best use of it possible, as often as possible.  You have been blessed with a true gift.  Love it.  Enjoy it.  Take joy and pleasure from it.  And stop listening to your sister, who wishes you to make the same huge mistake that she did.

Tempest,

I find that your responses are equally as eloquent as mine. . .

Dude. . .we should write a book! =0)

"How to accept yourself the way you are, and be the confident, sexy woman you knew you always could be. . ."

You want to write the 1st 50 chapters, and I'll write the second 50 chapters??

Yes, there is that much to say about women and about pussy, and about how sexy women are, and how confident they should be about themselves, as I'm sure you'll agree! =0)

Eric,

I'll take that as a compliment.

And yes, I agree completely.

I'd buy that book Eric!!

K,

You wouldn't have to buy it, Tempest and I would give you an autographed copy from both of us!

In fact all the women who visit this site would get a free autographed copy. . .Tempest and I would probably be in the poorhouse giving away that many copies, BUT, I'm sure we'd both have as much pussy as we could handle! =0)

Let's think about it logically. . .

Tempest and I would write the book, Ann and "Butterfly" would be the cover models to demonstrate what an incredible pussy looks like, Labi and Mr. Marquis could write the foreword, and Mr. Salesmanship could get us marketed to the UK crowd!

Holla if ya hear me folks!!  We're on fire up in here! =0)

Haha.. whats my role?

World wide would be well within the sales and marketing field of the renound organisation operating this training system for those who simply want to earn better money through good private enterprize.

Fingers to the key boards boys, camera's at the ready - kit off girls - lets all get rich and happy at the same time !

Love and Respect you All
Mr "S"

LOL
Eric I love your way of caracterizing us. It's a whole little community here, like K said some while ago

K,

well, since the book would mostly be directed at men, especially those who need to be educated as to what a quality pussy actually looks like, and what to do with one if you're actually lucky enough to get one, we'd obviously need lots and lots of pictures. that means we'll need models.

Obviously we'd want Butterfly, and Ann, plus a whole lot more photos of Jenny. But we're going to need a lot more models, for the sake of having the maximum variety possible. I'd really like to give you a chance to contribute K, but I'm afraid you're going to have to audition first.

;-D t_d

I'll translate this masterpiece into German, so you get into the German market too. Obviously, there will be more photos though than text, so I would consider "auditioning" too..... I'm getting a bit jealous of all the attention these other girls are getting from flaunting their luscious lips around!

Amanda, we welcome and encourage you to audition as well. In fact all of the lovely ladies who visit this site are asked to do so. Your screening can begin as early as today, simply send photographs of your labia to myself, Eric, Mr Salesmanship, Labi of course, and any of the other requesters you wish to help in the evaluation of your sexy labia. As well as the dispensation of huge amounts of attention.

Remember, a vagina that could by any stretch of the imagination be considered unattractive is a rare thing. almost all of them are at least beautiful. The ones with big sexy labia are just so much better.

attn provided here too.
wow debbie wish could give your sex drive a run.
thats not a handicap.
love your endowments.
we all do, -b

Hey. . .

You can ALL be models like Tempest said. . .

The only issue I'd have is trying to figure out who would be the "featured" model for the inset or cover of the book. . .

I guess in that case, we could run a little vote between Tempest and I based on a "taste" test! =0)P

HAHA!!

The funny part is. . .I think we'd still have a problem deciding! =0/

Maybe someone could get Labi to give them a taste test, and then we can break any "ties" that occur, since I'm sure there'd be lots of 'em if you leave it to just Tempest and me!

I don't know about Tempest, but I'd have lots of "do overs" for "quality" purposes. =0)

How about this, we do the taste test...Three times just to make sure. And if we still can't decide we'll have co-feature models, and they will have to be photographed together.

Tempest,

Hmmm. . .

I don't know. . .

Just 3 times??

I don't know. . .

I like to test the quality of things and that will require multiple tests -- don't know if I could commit to just 3.  Maybe 5, just to be safe.

Never hurts to be safe! =0)

Then we'd need to measure each of their labia too. . .come to think of it, we could draw notches on our cocks and/or fingers, and measure from the inside out!

They know how much we love those lips, and who better to write about the models than two guys who have PERSONALLY experienced the lips they posses, especially knowing how much we love their lips!

I think I'd use erasable marker on mine, so that I have to keep measuring over and over again because the notches "wash" off with their juices. =0)P

Shoot. . .I believe in equal opportunity employment too, we do not discriminate!  Therefore, we could have other women who are too shy to appear in the book, be part of our Labia "Testing" Staff too, as I'm sure there are ladies here who would love to help us "test" our models!  It'd probably take much longer that way, but I'm sure the models, nor the writers would be complaining much. =0)

- Eric

How long - with all this very nessasary research- do you guy's estimate it will be ( to the nearest decade ) before we go to print ?

Personaly I was in favor of a long series of issues and up dates, not forgeting all the advertising revenues, I guess I must be more interested in the till than most.

Mr "S"