My LIps!

Take careful note of this site my dear...it is were you will find the "right" guy's...who will run to you - not away.

Mr "S"

This complaint is useless without pictures. If you share a picture of them with the community here, I would think there would be a few of us that would run a mile to tell you how nice they are. Do you agree, fellow labia lovers?

Hi, I'm a 21 yo old girl just like you and recently lost my virginity to my boyfriend. One of the reasons why I waited so long to have sex was the embarrassment of having large labia. And not living up to 'expectations' and subsequently having all kinds of insecurities: I have small breasts, am (a bit too) thin, and very pale. Not exactly porn material. But anyway, I had sex with him and he didn't seem to notice anything off about me. He was a virgin too, so all the previous experience he had was artificial, and still he wasn't disgusted or surprised or whatever.  

My labia are also longer than normal (they hang about 1 cm (=0.39 inches) when standing up and about 3 cm (=1.18 inches) when stretched) but my main 'problem' is my large clitoral hood, it makes the whole thing look a bit dull and old. The color can vary between fleshcolored and very pink, even a bit purple when I'm cold. And they do vary from day to day, some days they feel larger than others.  
I'm still very insecure about them too, but some days are better than others and I really hope I get to meet a man who would be crazy about them just once. It would definitely be a confidence booster.

Sorry for the wall of text but I just wanted you to realize that you're not alone, and please don't let such a silly thing as the size of your genitals keep you from enjoying your first sexual experiences.

Cerise, You are giving Jenny good advice.  The thing you will both eventually discover is that your longer lips, or your larger clit hood, are all very, very sexy to most men.  Once you get past dealing with virginal or inexperienced young men, it will all become clear to you.  Your bodies are beautiful and very deeply sexy.  Enjoy them.  The more you make use of them, either by yourself or with partners, the more you will discover the value they represent.  Best Wishes to you both.

Jenny,

The reason you're still a virgin, is because ultimately you CHOOSE to be -- trust me there is no shortage of men waiting to lick the "dust" of your pussy, and fuck your brains out.

I apologize if you find me to be too candid, but it is the way I am as most on this site who know me will tell you.

At this point, I'd suggest you wait a bit longer, only because when you do find a man who YOU want to bone, he may be the wrong one (the one who will be an asshole, might not eat your pussy right, and maybe not call you afterwards either).

Regardless of what happens, you just need to realize that your pussy is sexy, YOU are sexy, and that men will (and CAN) line up to get their share of your pussy.

If you think that's not true, you can even point some of the men on this site to where the line starts, and watch the fireworks. =0)

Of course though. . .you'd have to give me 1st dibs though, so that I can take my time and do right, so that you remember the experience forever, and say to yourself: "Damn, my first time was fucking EXCELLENT!" -- not to say any of the other guys here couldn't do that for you, but I'm naturally biased towards my own ability. =0)

You should also start "entertaining" yourself (play with your pussy until you come, if you haven't done that yet), and don't wait for a man to give you that experience first.  You'll be able to "direct" your own show with a man, a bit better should decide to do it that way, since you'll know better what turns you on more.

Just my 3 cents. . .but either way, don't waste that pussy! =0)

Oh, and Cerise, you say you have "small" breasts, but I'd be curious to find out as to what you define to as "small".  I was with a woman once who was 36C (average breast size), and thought her tits were small.  Also, even if you actually do have small breasts, you'll find that you have something else that works even better (just in my own experience) -- usually a nice ass, or a super wet pussy, nice legs, nipples that get hard at the drop of a hat, etc.  Find your "thing".

- Eric

Mr Marquis..im scared its older the older guys though. Now im going for the 23-28 ages dunno if they will appreciate it. And im really sorry i think I spelt 'Cerise' wrong in the last message

Jenny, Have no fear.  The body you describe is extremely sexy and deeply attractive to most men, as you can tell by the comments here.  You have only to read them.  Beyond that, look at the photos of the other women here, and you will see that many women have similar attributes.  The simple fact is that larger labia, or a larger clit, are a very sexual turn on to men.  Just turn it around and think of how you react to a larger cock, a nice long, thick one.  It's really the same thing.  Any exaggerated sexual body part is a turn on.  Don't most men drool over larger tits?  Look at all the photos of women who's bulge from a clit and lips is visible through a bikini bottom.  Isn't that a big turn on for men, or for women who love women?  Of course it is.  You are quite blessed to have what you do.  Learn to love it, to enjoy it, to be thrilled by it.  If you happen to find some asshole who doesn't like it tell him to put his clothes back on and leave.  He is far outnumbered by those who, like the commenters here, would love to get their hands and lips on your body.

I wish someone would direct me to the chart that indicates what the "usual" length of a woman's labia is. We see it over and over " my labia are longer than usual", Well I'm here to tell you that that is a load of bullshit. there is no usual length for labia, and if there were I'd pray that the usual set of labia extend at least 1/2 inch past the outer lips, and would be nearly black in color.

the fact is that most men you're likely to find, and all of the men you're likely to see here are absolutely in love with long labia, and would in fact run a mile at the sight of them. although it would be toward your labia that they would be running. and most of the longer labia are likely to be a darker color than any pussy flesh still inside the pussy because they have been exposed to their surroundings.

I agree that you should probably be looking toward more experienced men when you are considering giving away your flower, but in my case I'm not referring to guys who are older than you, but guys who are older than the guys you are currently looking at. I know that some of the guys here at this site are still in their 20's, but I'm sure that even they would agree that they are exceptions to the rule when it comes to men really having the experience necessary to truly appreciate a woman's body enough to bring her the pleasure that all women, especially those of you who are well endowed, as you are.

when it all comes down to it though, we are here for you and want nothing more than to love what you have been given the way that we do. take a good long look at the photographs on this website, read the letters, take a good long look at your pussy, I mean really look at it. it isn't an ugly thing to be ashamed of, it is a tender flower that deserves to be loved. touch it, play with it. really develop a relationship with your pussy before you give up your virginity. and when you do, make sure that you give it to a man who really appreciates it. there's no rush.

good luck

Thanks everyone. Im just scared. It sounds stupid but every man i know says i have the 'perfect' body but i can't help but think of my labia and if they saw it would they still say the same thing. I wouldn't let a guy go down on me a few months back cos i was scared of what he would say. id love to send all of you this one photo i have.

WOW!!!

I knew you had to have a beautiful pussy, almost all pussies are. But I was unprepared for the mouth-watering vision of loveliness you set before me.

Thank you. you made my whole week.

Jenny,

I just tried to respond to you directly, but your e-mail address appears to be broken.

Jenny,

Understandable.

It doesn't sound "stupid" -- it just is what it is.

You wanna send us a pic you have, then send it, and let us tell you what we think about it.

You have all of our e-mail addresses.

I also find it interesting that you say, "you wouldn't let a guy go down on you". . .I am the kind of guy who doesn't take "no" for an answer. =0)

You would have no choice but to allow me to pleasure you and to enjoy it -- all in a good way of course!

- Eric

Jenny,
Thank you for your pic. I emailed comments back to you ( all favorable) but your email address failed. please send correct address.

Eric, lord I wish I was a 36C :). I am a 32A (US size), so I think I wouldn't be entirely wrong describing them as 'small'. As a teenager, they used to (and still sometimes do) really make me insecure because some people, as it goes, are horribly rude. But I guess now I'm fine with them. And seeing as I would never, ever get them enlarged, I just have to accept it. I mean, they look cute and I have to say, I adore my little pink nipples.
Now  if only I could be as sober and objective about my labia most of the time, I would instantly get rid of some insecurities. But well, I'm still a woman :).

Jenny,

If that pic you sent me of your pussy is what you were referring to all this time when you said: ". . .much longer then usual and they are just an ugly dark color. . .if i was a guy and saw them i'd run a mile. This is why i am 21 and am still a virgiN."

Well then I have to say that you are sadly mistaken.

I have to correct you. . .but THAT is NOT a pussy I would run from. . .in fact it's a pussy I'd run AT -- as fast as I could!

The dark color you mentioned isn't un-natural at all, and they aren't dark in color at all, they just match your body type.

Again I maintain that the only reason you're still a virgin is because you WANT to be a virgin.

Find a guy you really like, and let him know up-front that your intention is to have sex with him if he plays his cards right (some people will disagree with this approach, but I believe in honesty), and if he DOES play his cards right (don't set a time limit, just let him know that you will eventually when the timing is right for you), whip that sucker out, and use your finger to make it really wet, and then let me know how he responds to that.

If my guess is right (and it usually is with this stuff). . .he will probably want to ravage you right on the spot, and will not be looking at how "ugly" (all in your mind) your pussy is, in fact he'll be trying to figure out how many ways he can touch it, fill-it, and how many times he needs to lick it before you cum -- it's what I or any of the other guys on this site would be thinking! =0)

i've been trying to sort it out allday from work too quite annoyed with it as i cant even receive work emails. let u know if i sort it!! but thanks for all your comments!

Hey Jenny, I know lots of lovely ladies that feel that way about their labia. And you are right there are guys who do not find long lips with coloration appealing. They are a very very small minority and they usually have their own issues, (small penis, short fat, etc) The pussy you described are what most men hope their whole life they find once. It means you and your puss are very special, and you will one day realize that.  

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Blondebomber

Jenny, the photo you sent is just stunning.  Very beautiful.  I just can't imagine any man not wanting to pay a whole lot of attention to your cunt and it's beautiful thick lips.  Just beautiful.  Thanks so much for sending the photo.  I think you simply have to keep yourself from stopping men from going down on you out of fear.  Give them the chance to appreciate your body, and to make good use of it.  After all, you are prejudging their reactions, and I assure you, you are quite wrong about how they will react.  They will simply love your body, and will want nothing but more.

Jenny,

I just tried again to send you the message I wrote when I first saw the photo you sent. I will keep trying until your e-mail address gets fixed, or you provide us with an address that works.

Until then, I basically told you how much I liked your pussy. I mean really liked it, I'm one of those guys who likes labia that have darkened where the extend past the outer lips so your pussy was a real treat for me. If you have, or feel like making more of then I would REALLY like to see them.

The rest of the letter went into detail what I'd like to do to that mouthwatering pussy of yours, but that's for your eyes only.

take care Jenn, and just know that there are men out here, more that you'd expect, who dream of getting lost in a pussy that looks like yours.

XOXO t_d

Jenny, would you share that pic with me please?
New to the site, but hoping to see your beauty!

Hello Jen
As someone who adores and appreciates large labia, I would be honoured to receive any pics you may wish to send.
Cheers
Gerry

Hi Jenny,  
I cant help but notice that you were concerned that it was only 'older' men that found large labia attractive. However i am proud to say that I am 19 years of age and I can think of nothing sexier than a woman sporting a pair of nice, juicy vagina lips.
I would love to hear more from you so please feel free to email me and allow me to put any of your labia related fears to rest :)
Jesse x