Large lips mean nothing more than a welcome novelty

Sexy,

your labia sound like they are indeed very sexy, I would like to extend the invitation that I extend to just about every other lady here, to allow us to view your beautiful pussy so we can tell you just how sexy it really is.  

As for the subject of your labia getting pinched. As well as any chaffing which you didn't mention, but I'm guessing you may have also experienced. several letters have been written about this, you may want to search through the letters for the information you seek.
When you practice, do you wear anything under your thong?  This may seem like a stupid question, But I've learned never to overlook the stupid questions. Wearing a leotard, or something like that could keep your thong from riding up into you. also, have you ever considered that your thong may be too tight? they are meant to be snug, but if they're too tight they are going to go places you don't want them to, no matter what. If that doesn't work, maybe you could try tucking your labia in. But only while you're dancing.

and when you're not dancing you may want to consider wearing looser pants and shorts, or skirt and dresses, without panties at all. This should allow your pussy to get more air, reduce any binding or chafing you experience. Plus, a hot babe going commando is really sexy.

As for you having a really tight pussy. Unless it's preventing you from enjoying intercourse, I don't really see a problem. If you are experiencing painful intercourse; is it the whole time, or just at the beginning? And is it every time, or just one or two partners?

If it's just at the start, you might want to extend the foreplay until you're really wet and ready. if it's with every partner, you may have trouble lubricating, it may be psychological, or you could just have trouble getting wet. either way, several lubricants are available at your local drug store or sex shop, I prefer the silicon based ones because they don't dry out. If you're only having this problem with some of your partners, I suggest you don't have sex with them anymore, you're obviously not relaxed enough around them to really enjoy yourself.

But hey, if you're enjoying the sex, but you think you may be too tight. You're not too tight. I recommend you only give that wonderful, full lipped, really tight pussy to someone who really deserves it. Make them work for the prize.

Hi Yoni,

I suggest you wear the HOM thongs made for males when you dance.  This form of male thongs has a pouch up front meant for holding the man's dick and bundle.  Even if there's a hard-on the pouch can still contain the stiff dick well - not slipping out.   The position of the pouch may be a tad out of position for the pussy but there is enough space for a large pair of lips.   Your large lush labia could well stay in place when the crotch slips in between them during active dancing. In fact you'll feel very comfortable with your inner lips sort of wrapped up.  Try the types made from silky fabric and nude colour which are shearer and less obvious.

By the way, why complain of your very tight vagina?  This is a prime property of a lady which every experienced man wants.  With a good foreplay and juices running free any dick would love penetrating that snug love hole!

Enjoy.

Thanks very much guys for replying back to me and I will take your advice. Contact me if you need to talk more. i still love my
long lips.

Yoni,

I've been meaning to bring this up, I'm sorry it's taken so long. but I have to say that the title of this post is a bit troubling to me. Large lips mean soooooooooooooo much more than a welcome novelty. they are what most strongly pulls me to a woman, the reason I get up in the morning, the reason I draw breath.

don't get me wrong, I love pussy in general. to me a woman's pussy is the center of her sexuality, the source of life. the power that a woman has over men, what she ultimately uses to pull him in and enslave him. And the reason a man is so willing to be enslaved by her, and is so happy when he is.

but a pussy with large labia is even more of all that. and the woman who possesses them holds so much more power over the man of her choosing once she realizes what power she actually commands.