sex life

Jay!

That's an easy one. . .

I'll pretend your question was:

"how can you know that your partner had many sex partners."

Now for the answer (drumroll please. . .)

You ask her: "How many sexual partners have you had?"

Realistically there is no other way to know, unless your a DNA scientist or something, and even then I think you'd be challenged to find previous DNA from all of her partners beyond the ones she may have had in the last few months.

Just ask her.

If you think that you can look at her pussy and tell then you're either too young to understand why there is no correlation between the size of a woman's pussy, and how many partners she's had, or you are sorely uneducated about women and their sexual parts.

Either way, I still think asking her is your best bet -- if you make her comfortable enough, and let her know that the number of sexual partners that she's had will not reflect on how you feel about her, I'm sure she will gladly tell you without any issues.

You do know that the number of sexual partners she's had is completely meaningless right??  It's like asking a $100 bill where it's been.  The $100 bill spends the same REGARDLESS of where it's been, and it is still WORTH $100 REGARDLESS of where it's been.  With pussy, it is the same.  Now if your concern is about sexually transmitted diseases with this woman, then you need to let her know your concerns.  If she's honest (and women tend to be), she'll let you know (you should still use a condom if you're concerned though, since she could have a disease she doesn't even know about and could tell you that she has no STD's which would be a bit of a misnomer for you if she doesn't know she has one.)  But then you could also ask her when was the last time she got tested, and such too.

Either way. . .good luck, and merry pussy to you! =0)

My God, Eric, your answers are always brilliant. Your bodily urges are like those of a neanderthal but your mind is hyper-developed. Your wife must be awesome to have a guy like you!

Jay

Why do you even care if she's had many partners? If you love her it won't matter, unless you have issues you need to work through.

Its easy to find out.  For example if your partner is a HE and had many partners before, he would tend do elaborate fore-plays before he begins fucking you.  No green horns could resist the sight of that  inviting pussy for more than 2 minutes without his heart jumping out of his chest!  Furthermore if he had may partners before, he would tend to fuck you in various positions until you come before him. A green horn tends to fuck only in one position and may come within the first 5 minutes.

If your partner is a SHE and had many partners before, she would not be shy when you strip her off her lingerie, instead would tend to remain calm and even be the initiator in the sex process, such as blowing your banger with that experienced mouth massage.  

There are many other tell-tale signs such as:  knows how to assist you in putting on your umbrella without fumbling or have no hesitation to fuck you while she goes on top of you and etc.

Try to look for the above signs and I am sure you'll learn fast.

Amanda,

I love you too. . .*wink* =0)

I'm a sexual beast when I need to be, a gentleman when the time requires, a superb intellectual, and a curious philosopher all wrapped into a 6 Foot, 220 pound package.

If you love me, you should see my wife -- you would truly come to understand and relate with the phrase: "Behind every strong/sexy/amazing man, is an equally and unequivocally strong/sexy/amazing woman."

People refer to my wife and I as a "power couple" -- now you have an idea as to why. =0)

Get your wife on here Eric. That would be amazing. I'm going to go out on a lim and say that her responses would be just as fabulous. So yeah, totally get her on - the world would be such a better place!

Grace,

I've already asked her to come on here, but she's playing the shy bullshit -- she just reads, and doesn't comment on anything (even with my encouraging nudges).

Her responses WOULD be just as fabulous, no doubt about it!

She's very beautiful, highly sexual (like me), incredibly adept in the intellectual department, open to experiences with bringing other partners into our bedroom (privately of course), and she has an amazing pussy to boot!  She does kegel exercises, and her snatch grips my cock like a vise grip -- can you say "lucky as hell?"

End result, I'm a lucky (and happy) bastard!

I get to have my "cake" and eat it too (literally in my wife's case), and I think in a perfect world we'd all get to do that, but unfortunately the things we talk about and share with one another on this site haven't yet become mainstream. =0/

Soon. . .I think the world is on the verge of an evolutionary "jump", because we can't keep living the way we've been living anymore.

Most people pretend, and usually don't say what they really feel think because of what OTHER people may think. . .they could be ostracized by their peers for example. . .but I say fuck it.  Let the world know who you are, and how you think.  They'll either accept you or they won't. . .but one things for sure that "pretending" shit is coming to an end, and sooner than later too.

I'm not talking about no Jesus returning, The Prophet Mohammed rising or any of that either. . .I'm talking about the Universe becoming conscious of itself.

Human beings are connected far more closely than any of us can even comprehend, and the time for that "evolutionary jump" I just mentioned is coming, and will change the way we interact with one another forever.

We think that because we live on this fairly small planet (large to us though), and are pre-occupied with the bullshit that goes in our lives (and the lives of others around the world) that we've managed to "skip" the beat on the Universe's turntable, but nothing could be further from the truth.

I'm not talking Armageddon, Fire and Brimstone and all that shit either. . .I'm talking a real, conceivable "evolutionary jump".

Humans haven't evolved in thousands of years. . .we've just become more dependent on technology to make the mundane shit we do easier/simpler/faster.

In reality, the human mind has a capacity that is unfathomable to us at the moment. . .but I think the time is coming for those parts of our mind to "wake up".

There will be a day I believe when we no longer need to formulate sounds with our vocal cords, tongues and mouths, to communicate something to another person.

Could you imagine what that would be like??

Hard to comprehend right??

Time is a concept invented by humans. . .in reality space and time itself is just an illusion at the end of the day (no pun intended).

If you tried to break down the amount of time that the Universe has been in existence. . .or maybe something simpler, like the number of galaxies that exist besides ours, your brain wouldn't even be able to wrap it's head around the number (neither could mine or any of our best scientists even).

So as humans we invent things to explain. . .well. . .the unexplainable.

Once you measure past septillions of years for example, you have  something called a "cosmological decade".  It works on a logarithmic scale, meaning that the decade after the last one is longer than the last ones before it ALL combined.

Now, I'm not saying any of this to make your eyes glaze over, and fuck up your thought processes. . .I say this because as human beings, we don't seem to get that the ultimate purpose of our short lives on this tiny little planet is to be happy.  Period.

It's not to kill each other, it's not to control each other, it's not to have more than the next human has (hoarding), it's simply to live, let live, fuck, roam, fuck some more, and just do whatever your whim tells you to do.

Now, I'm not Utopian, and of course a "Survivalist" or "Marxist" will flame my theories here. . .but I say fuck that, because we're all "surviving" as a species.  There is no "survival of the fittest" bullshit.  We're ALL surviving as a species, not as different races, nationalities, or any of that crap.

Humans define their lives by the bad shit that happens to them, not by the good things that happen ironically. . .yet they will turn right around and tell you: "I want to be happy."

Yet, everything that is causing "problems" as we experience them in our lives were ALL created by us in the first place.

Who the fuck created a border between the US and Mexico for example, or the US and Canada, or any other country??

Last I checked, we were all born on this fucker, and therefore we all have "rights" (if you wanna call it that. . .probably not the best term) to it.  "Mexico" (just another piece of land) belongs to me, as much as it belongs to you or anyone else.  Just like the land that we lay claim to here (the USA) belongs to any Mexican who want to inhabit it.  No one, and I do mean NO ONE can tell anyone on this planet where they can go or what they can do, although we do allow other humans to do just that.  Are they better than we are??  No.  Do they know shit we don't know?  No (they may claim to, but it's bullshit).  We "elect" (that's a funny word) people to lead us, because we don't think we can lead ourselves.  We all have a "are you my daddy??" complex in that respect.

There is no reason why I shouldn't be able to walk from here to Mexico, without any shit if I want to. . .and vice versa for a "Mexican" (who's really just another human).

But I realize I'm branching off on a whole 'nother topic here, so I'm gonna stop now before you folks think I'm fucking nuts or something.

If you wanna dialog about that stuff, just e-mail me, and we'll chat it up. . .otherwise, I promise to keep to the talk about pussy here! =0)