You seem to have readily accepted your b/f's statements about your labia when you were both so young and immature, but now that you're growing up you seem quite reluctant to accept what he has to say about how he feels now. According to what you say in this note, he changed his mind after only few months of a years long relationship. Isn't it time you gave the guy a break? He obviously gets to use your labia and your pussy regularly, or at least see them. Surely he has come to appreciate them, and you, far more than he did at such a young, immature age. As you can tell from the comments here, many women have trouble accepting their looks, and the value of their labia, how sexy they really are to most men. What you have been going through is quite normal. How you look is quite normal. Isn't it time for you to start appreciating your boyfriend, your labia, your pussy? After all, they can all provide you with such pleasure, and such joy, if you will only let them.