Yes, it is likely to end in disappointment as it is highly likely your vagina is the least of your problems, best bet is to go with your gut instinct and just cut your vaginal skin out until it suits you best.
Anonymous
November 28, 2008
Okay, I'm 20 and I'm a virgin because I've literally been sick with
worry of what guys will think of my labia. Every time any
relationship gets to the point of sex, I break it off with some lame
excuse as to why. I just wanted to ask, is there any way to know if
guys will like the huge labia? I know for a fact that most, if
they're honest, don't, and that terrifies me. I fear rejection a lot.
Also, is there any surgery to get rid of it? I've considered snipping
it with scissors, but if there's proper surgery then obviously that
would be preferred.
Thanks for reading, if you did.
Anon
December 1, 2008
Yes, it is likely to end in disappointment as it is highly likely your vagina is the least of your problems, best bet is to go with your gut instinct and just cut your vaginal skin out until it suits you best.
December 1, 2008
Hey Anon, that's a nasty thing to say if you really mean that, but I think you are just mocking her. To Miss Anonymous, don't let a bit of sarcasm put you down. And never EVER start cutting yourself down there. The bleeding and resultant scars will be horrendous!
Even if you have experienced rejection because of your labia size, it doesn't mean the next guy or guys will react the same.
Some won't like it, some will not care what size they are, others will adore you for it... and not necessarily in that
order! Fact is, if you overcome your fear and let things just happen next time you are becoming intimate with a guy, you
will find someone who will see you as even more desirable because of your huge lips. You possess something that will likely
turn out to be a bonus instead of a burden; you just don't know it yet.
lip_obsessed
December 1, 2008
Anonymous,
PLEASE DON"T HAVE SURGERY! That is the last thing
in the world that needs to happen. What you need most is a boost in
confidence. I offer one on one coaching to women like yourself.
Please contact me at my e-mail and let's talk through this, don't do
anything hasty! I assure you, you just haven't found the right guy
yet. I truly think I can help you with this, just drop me a line and
give me a chance to change your perspective on this!
lip_obsessed
jimmy
December 2, 2008
not all men are like that some ov us are totaly the opposite me for one i say surgery would be a waste for any female just give urself more confidence.
Happy27
December 4, 2008
Regarding "Help" by Anonymous.
I have to say as they said
above me... Do NOT have surgery! I know that having large labias will
at some points in life make you feel different, and just dream of
having that "tucked in pussy" as seen in all magazines and so on. But
I have to say, when you grow older you will love that you have them
cause you will feel how much guys love them. Most of them do:-)
I have never heard a guy say anything negative about my pussylips.
Just that they love it...
I waited a long time to have
sex too, for the same reasons as you. My only advice would be that
you wait until you feel you can trust this guy. I used to think "when
he is fingering my pussy, he must feel my lips, and when he is still
turned on by that he will love having sex with me and see it too"
I have had all of the same thoughts as you, but I
promise you it will change! I avoided showering at school for soooo
many years.
I would love to keep in touch with you if you
need someone to talk to:-)
Take care, and please don't use a lot
of money on a surgery like that. And don't even think about
scissors... Infections and a bleeding you won't be able to stop is
nothing you wanna do to your self.
Take care, and write to us
here if you still have some thought around this subject.
Loving Man
December 5, 2008
To whom this may concern! I have enjoyed the woman body for years! Men out there who are afraid of enjoying your are out of there minds! Its rediculious to pass on your specialty! You are and have a special gift that God gave you! Your womanhood is the Birthing tool and a super pleasure ride. DO NOT CUT A THING! Your Labia is Beautiful and a wonderful tool in prelinary Love making. It is a very sensitive region and awesome!
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