I know what you mean i am the same... i hate them but after this site it has made me feel a little better.. I have 2 got an appointment with the hospital but am so confussed and don't know what 2 do now ...
fefe
November 13, 2008
hi people i luv this site i think its great and has helped my
confidence alot because iv always been self conscious of my large
labia, now i feel almost completely comfortable with
myself.......anyway im 20 and iv never had a bf and have had a few
sexual partners and had no problems.......but i always have the fear
when i meet a guy who likes me that he might not like my labia and
will reject me or insult me! and i no some guys do like it but i just
have this idea in my head that most guys dont find it attractive and
feel like i will have to look harder to find someone who will accept
me......do any of you other girls have this fear??? or had it and how
do you get over it???? (without surgery-which is what they tell u to
do on all these tv shows iv seen about it!)
thanx for
reading take care xxxx
Nicole
November 17, 2008
I know what you mean i am the same... i hate them but after this site it has made me feel a little better.. I have 2 got an appointment with the hospital but am so confussed and don't know what 2 do now ...
fefe
November 27, 2008
u should take some time and have a good think about what you want to do, dont rush it ...im the same im trying my best to accept myself as i am..... i dont hate my labia but if a guy sed he didnt like it i would be really upset...maybe its my issues with myself thou....sumtimes i think it would be easier to just have surgery but then i feel bad for giving in to peoples Expectations because iv seen some girls having it done and their labia isnt even that big but people are telling them theyre abnormal and its not true! it pisses me off! just coz u dnt look like a model in a playboy mag! as long as ur happy do what u want to do! takecare xxx
Lydia
December 14, 2008
Im 18 i love my lips but yeah there is always that fear at the back of my head. Like i say men have to experience them before they can make a judgment. To be honest any idiot that is rude about it isnt worth talking to! u have to learn to love them and not care about anyone else!
Tom
December 22, 2008
You got it right Lydia! If any guy insults you about your larger labia, then he just not worth it! Is that the type of guy you want? He's obviously immature and shallow if something like that puts him off you. And anyway, that is just his view! You are worth better than someone like him! As you know all women are different in how their pussies look, just as with the rest of their bodies and it's just because we are used to seeing smaller and neater labia that we kinda end up thinking that is the norm! Learn to love your beautiful larger labia and think that many guys will find it a turn-on, me being one of them!
fefe
December 28, 2008
Thankyou guys i have realised you are right i shouldnt care so much what other people think! its a waste of time. i have actually been looking at myself alot recently with a mirror and beliving for the first time that i look beautifull! and its givin me more confidence in the bedroom! all u need is to love yourself its true. takecare xxx
Luckyone
January 10, 2009
Hi fefe
That's great to hear!
To insecure woman: I'm pretty
sure that there are way more guys who worship big labia than guys who
don't like it (It's such a little minority so don't spend all your
time fearing them). And rest of the guys just like labia no matter
what the size are! So instead of fearing what guys would think try
instead to realize that there is a big chance that you will make some
lucky guys dream come through with your beautyfull and sexy big labia!
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