Not sure on surgery

hey
im 18 years old and like most guys my age (as mentioned on this site) im not too picky about the size of a girls labia. however i do love a large labia. its awesome fun to play with and to go down on and is amazing to look at.

ultimately its up to you, if it has caused you this much embarrassment over the years, and think it will continue to do so then have the surgery, but i think that it is a bad idea. you were created how you are, and although most men have different sexual preferences, very few will turn down a large sexy meaty vulva.

That being said, how large is it?  
can you put some pictures on the site so we can get a better idea of your gorgeous gift?
hope that helps somewhat
xoxo

DON'T GET ALTERED FOR ANYONE!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I know you've heard the old addages "it takes all kinds to make the world go 'round" and "variety is the spice of life".  If there were no differences, everyone would look the same.  Some guys like 'em hairy, hairless, little lips, large lips, juice, dry.  

The main thing is ATTITUDE. Be open, non-vanilla, and experimental.  Don't hold back "secrets", everything is OK (just not for everyone). Tippy-toe around the subject you are wanting feedback on (just as you would anyu other subject) and you'll learn a lot. You'll find someone (like me) who adores pussies of all types or just YOUR type (I'd love to latch on to your big lips and large clip and not let go until you eyes spun like a slot machine and I looked like a glazed donut).

I must say, with out a doubt
Large labia is a turn on
I've surfed my web sites and seen many lips
the best one are the ones that are unaulterd
a woman should be as god made her
dont be afraid of what men think, It's all about how you feel

Don t have surgery! I m 38 years old and when I was younger I was thinking that way also. Since then i ve learned to appreciate my overly large labia and am very thankful that people talked me out of it. If you would like I can send you a pic so that you can see that many of us are the same as you, and thankful.

Hey sweet Lady,

Any good man would totally adore your large lips, and to enjoy them is the ultimate of pleasures.

Don't ever make them smaller,, to the contrary, work on making them bigger.  The rewards from real men will be most rewarding.

This from a man of years of experience and looking at 67

Tom

I am the same...mine are pretty large....anyway I use to hate them....go and get a brazilian and was embarressed...its hard to get all the hair in all the nooks and crannys........someone teach me to love my large labia please

I am 23 and feel the same... i have an oppointment book 2.... but after reading this i feel like i don't know wat 2 do... As a do modeling and c girls all the time i always feel am different and hate.... god i don't know wat 2 do....

I have big lips too, but I never felt badly about them, even though they are slightly uneven. I always thought my pussy was cute!  

It's sad that you or anyone would think their vulva isn't good enough. As a lesbian, let me say that ANY kind of pussy is sexy! I would hold off on the surgery if I was you--once you do it you're stuck with it.

Surf the web and find some other ladies who've had their lips reduced. I've heard plenty of horror stories about botched labiaplasty...

Dearest N,

I have the opposite "Problem."  My libia are small, thin and tiny.  Just like the "normal," girls we see every day in porn.  I'm extreamly bi.  Maybe cause I just really like sex and don't care who licks me as long as it's good.  Anyhoo, my current partner has HUGE fleshy lips.  I could suck on them ALL night and day, and it SEEMS she has a much easier time orgaziming, gushing and in general ENJOYING the beauty of being female.  I wish I had a full swollen sexy cunt like my girlfriend and you do.  Please don't cut off anything God gave you, you sexy sexy girl!  Anytime you think of mutilating yourself, think about girls like me who don't, and are wishing we did!  

Well anyway, gotta run!
Feel free to email me anytime. I really do hope this helps.

XXXXXXXXXXXXX

Nessa

I LOVE PUSSY BUT WHEN IT COMES TO BIG LARGE PUSSY LIPS THEY'RE THE BEST AND I WILL EAT THA HELL OUT OF THAT PUSSY

my dear; you are very young. I am your mothers age. I have large, full, voluptuous, purple and frilly lips. And this web site is blowing me away. Nobody has ever really appreciated them; and although I've learned to love my body as it is, with curves and short legs, and a great (not fashionably flat) ass, it took a while. Promise me this: wait 2 or 3 more boyfriends. You don't have enough experience yet. And if you want to have children, you need to be able to stretch fully (10 cm or 4 inches plus a bit) so look on a ruler. Scars never stretch as well as the real thing; you may set yourself up for bad tears or automatic c-sections. I know because I had some medically necessary surgery - it was not easy birthing. So wait a bit - maybe you do look a bit different, but sure seems okay with some of the gents and ladies here!

Hi, it might be hard to accept the beauty of your pussy, but please do not get any alterations to your lips. You will be sorry later. For further research, check out this web site, it has a lot of great advice. Also another one called thebigvagina.com which also loves the large pussy lips. I wish I had a significant other with some tasty ones to play with. The exceptions, like you, are in demand.
Take care and write if you want.